September 13, 2022

1. Yin and Yang, light and darkness.
   It’s heads and tails of a coin. 
   Still a coin but it looks different when you look from a different angle.
   
   
2. No attempts needed to get rid of darkness; bring them into your light.
   Embrace and accept them.
   
   
3. Having learnt how to love, you also knew how to hate.
   
   
4. To learn love, you shall know what hate is: a different form of loving.
   Love is active, while Hate is passive: it comes to you when expecting for being loved but having got betrayed.
   
   
5. Say “thank me” first and you can embrace who you really are.
   It helps you accept a part of your darkness.
   
   
6. An unthankful person cannot be thankful for others.
   Gratitude should be bestowed to you by yourself first: it’s to be a gratitude generator to others.
   
   
7. When someone speaks ill of you behind your back, let’s celebrate it: the someone helps you get rid of your karma.
   Let’s bless him/her/them for having you in their mind enough to speak of you.
   
   
8. They are not evils.
   They are messengers to let you know what problems lie in you.
   
   
9. A curse to you will come back to the one cursing you unless you take it.
   Say “thank you but no thank you” to the curse and it returns to its owner.
   
   
10. Don’t have a grudge against someone who have done something bad to you.
    A grudge brings you down to the same level as the ones damaging you.
    Be noble.
    
    
11. A lethal weapon is “thank you” when you encounter something unfortunate. The word helps offenders melt iced parts in their core or you may simply have a shield against them.
    Their offensiveness will go away.
    
    
12. What you have in your mind isn’t an issue.
    What you speak out matters most.
    Whatever emotion you feel inside, cast out something positive in words.
    Those words reshape your inner.
    
    
13. Accept your shortcomings.
    Don’t try to deny it.
    The denial means you deny yourself.
    Instead, say simply “I love my shortcomings”.
    It broadens your eyes and leads you to think differently.
    
    
14. A shortcoming is a compass of your strength; if you accept it, you can ease yourself and find what you can.
    
    
15. You may need a hidden flavor to make your cook tastier: Love.
    Seriously, when you put love saying “it’s going to be tastier” into the dish while you are cooking, it will be real.
    
    
16. On top of that, when thinking of smiles and “Yummy” from those who you cook for, the dish will be much tastier.